Wedding Speech Coach · London & Online

Write it. Rehearse it.
Actually enjoy
delivering it.

You do not need to be a natural public speaker to give a brilliant wedding speech. Owen is an award-winning, conservatoire-trained actor who has spent years helping people go from a blank page and a knot of nerves to standing up on the day and genuinely enjoying it.

  • Help writing the speech, from a blank page to a finished script
  • Rehearsal using proven professional acting techniques
  • Real tools to settle nerves and stop your mind going blank
  • Confident, natural delivery on the day itself
Award-Winning Trained Actor
Masters Degree In Performance
15+ Years Professional Performer
★★★★★ 5-Star Reviews
Owen, Wedding Speech Coach at We Are Delphi
★★★★★
5.0 Rating Bark Reviews
Award-Winning Performer
Trained at East 15 & Lecoq
Writing to Delivery Support
Online, UK-Wide

Is This For You?

Who this is for.
And who it isn't.

This is for you if

  • You have a wedding speech to give and the nerves are getting in the way of enjoying it
  • You don't need to already be a natural public speaker, that's what the coaching is for

This isn't for you if

  • You want someone to write the entire speech for you with no input, this works best when it's genuinely your words, coached into shape
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Does this feel familiar?

It is one speech.
It still keeps you up
at night.

Wedding speeches bring up a very particular kind of dread, even in people who are otherwise confident. These are some of the things Owen hears most.

"I genuinely hate the sound of my own voice. The idea of everyone listening to it for five minutes is mortifying."

On disliking your own voice

"I have a blank page and no idea where to even start. Every draft sounds wrong."

On not knowing what to write

"I can say it perfectly alone in my room. The second there is an audience, my mind just goes blank."

On freezing in front of a crowd

"I know I say umm and err constantly when I am nervous, and that makes me more nervous."

On filler words under pressure

"I feel like everyone is judging me before I have even said a word."

On feeling judged

"Self doubt creeps in and I start to think I am just going to mess this up in front of everyone."

On being crippled by self doubt
"You do not need to be a natural speaker. You just need the right preparation."
OWEN · Wedding Speech Coach

None of this means you cannot do this well.

Every one of these feelings is normal, and every one of them is something proven acting technique can address directly. This is not about becoming a different person for one afternoon. It is about giving your actual voice, and your actual story, the preparation it deserves.

Talk to Owen
Owen, Wedding Speech Coach at We Are Delphi
"I have spent my career learning how to hold a room. Now I help you hold yours."

Your Coach

Hi. I am Owen.
A trained actor,
not a script-writer for hire.

I trained as an actor at two of the world's leading drama schools, East 15 and Lecoq, and I am an award-winning performer with years of professional experience on stage. None of that is the point of a wedding speech. All of it is exactly why I am good at helping you give one.

The techniques I use to walk on stage in front of strangers are the same ones that help someone stand up in front of family and friends and actually enjoy it. I have helped people right through the whole process, from staring at a blank page, to rehearsing until it feels natural, to standing up on the day with real, settled confidence.

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Trained at East 15 & Lecoq

Two of the world's leading drama schools

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Award-Winning Performer

Years of professional stage experience

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Writing Through to Delivery

Support at every stage, not just the day itself

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All sessions online via Zoom

Rehearse in your own space, UK-wide

Book a Free Intro Call with Owen

How It Works

From blank page
to standing ovation.
Well, almost.

Support at every stage, tailored to where you are starting and how much time there is before the wedding.

Stage One

Write It

Starting from a blank page or a rough draft, Owen helps you find the stories worth telling and shape them into a speech that actually sounds like you, not a template.

Stage Two

Rehearse It

We rehearse it together, with Owen giving you live notes as you go, just as he would with any actor preparing a role. The speech is treated like a real performance, because that is exactly what it is, so you give a real performance, not just a recital.

Stage Three

Deliver It

Real tools to settle nerves on the day itself, so when you stand up, you are not just getting through it. You are actually able to enjoy it.

This Is For You If

Any of this
sound familiar?

Owen works with people facing exactly these challenges, using proven professional acting techniques to help with each one.

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You hate the sound of your own voice and dread everyone listening to it.

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You do not know what to write and every draft feels wrong.

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You can get it right in private, but your mind goes blank in front of a crowd.

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You keep saying umm or err, especially when nerves kick in.

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You feel judged before you have even said a word.

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You feel crippled by self doubt about whether you can pull this off.

What People Say

Five stars.
Here are some of them.

Real reviews from real clients. Unedited.

★★★★★ 5.0 average rating
★★★★★
"Really useful session. Owen focused in on the stuff I actually wanted help with rather than running through a generic script. The follow up write up was super useful with breathing, jaw and vocal warm ups, plus learning tips I had not heard before."
James
Bark Review · 5 Stars
★★★★★
"Owen is such a supportive and engaging coach who packs so much into a single session. He is full of energy and has all the breathing tips and vocal tricks you could ever need. His openness and honesty helped calm my anxieties."
David
Bark Review · 5 Stars
★★★★★
"I was having very difficult confidence issues. Owen really helped to pick me up, give me much needed confidence and gave me incredibly valuable preparation exercises to remove some of the noise and focus on delivering."
Peter
Bark Review · 5 Stars
★★★★★
"Owen is clearly extremely experienced and competent. He brings a high level of warmth, fun and professionalism to all of our sessions. We have worked on breathing, movement, confidence, grounded embodiment, gestures, tone, pace and vocal dynamics."
Pasco Ashton
Bark Review · 5 Stars
★★★★★
"I really enjoyed Owen's coaching sessions. The speaking exercises were practical and engaging. I especially liked how Owen used acting techniques and applied them to real scenarios. Highly recommend Owen."
Kerry Meakins
Bark Review · 5 Stars
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Questions

Things people ask before booking

I have never written or given a speech before. Can you still help?

Yes, most clients have never done this before. Owen will help you from a blank page, finding the stories and the structure that actually sound like you, then build your confidence to deliver it through rehearsal.

I can say it fine on my own, but my mind goes blank in front of people. Why?

This is extremely common and is about nerves, not ability. Owen uses proven acting techniques to work on this directly, breath, grounding and rehearsal under realistic conditions, so what you can do in private holds up in the room.

I hate the sound of my own voice. Will that be a problem?

No, and you are far from alone in feeling this way. Part of the work is building a more comfortable relationship with your own voice, understanding it as an instrument you can shape and trust, rather than something to get through.

How far in advance should I book?

As early as you can, ideally several weeks before the wedding, so there is time to write, refine and properly rehearse. That said, Owen can also work with shorter notice if needed, get in touch and he will be honest about what is realistic.

Do sessions work online?

Yes, completely. All sessions are via Zoom, anywhere in the UK or internationally. This works well because you can rehearse in your own space and record sessions to revisit before the big day.

How many sessions will I need?

It depends on where you are starting and how much time there is before the wedding. Some clients need one focused session, others want a few across writing, rehearsal and final delivery. Owen will give you an honest view after the free intro call.

Are you LGBTQ+ friendly?

Yes. We believe support should be for anyone and everyone. You are welcome here.

One speech. One chance to enjoy it.

Start with a conversation.
Free. No commitment.

Tell Owen where you are with your speech, whether that is a blank page or a finished draft you are dreading delivering. He will tell you honestly what will help most.